Captain of my own ship, I've lead my life to New York. Now I'm just working on leading myself to becoming the man I was meant to be.

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at-seapoint:

im gonna lose more weight and get tattooed and be super hot soon just you wait

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skullspeare:

blastortoise:

I never tell people off the bat that I’m gay. I wait. I wait until they say some homophobic shit and then I laugh and am like “you know I’m gay right?” And watch the look of terror on their face.

i like you

i accidentally did this once…like, i wasn’t gonna tell them and when they did that they were so taken aback, it was hilarious. 

We’re having lunch this week because they realized gays weren’t like the plague and it was awesome. 

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brylow:

how the bi-bros get fit quick

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http://thegenderninja.tumblr.com/post/95709968713/breathinginthestarlight-otherkin

breathinginthestarlight:

breathinginthestarlight:

Otherkin;

thegenderninja:

As a transman who has fought tooth and nail along with all the other trans and non-binary people for acceptance, I must ask you to please stop making us look like farces.

Your idea is not cute….it’s insulting.

I was told by…

Thanks for being nice. Sorry if i  came off as rude too.

Otherkin is not a gender. If anyone says that it is, they are most likely a troll blog. It was a misunderstanding and it happens!

It’s all good…thanks for the understanding. And don’t worry, I understood where you were coming from which is why I responded. 

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Otherkin;

thegenderninja:

As a transman who has fought tooth and nail along with all the other trans and non-binary people for acceptance, I must ask you to please stop making us look like farces. 

Your idea is not cute….it’s insulting. 

I was told by user “neonkin” when I messaged them about the issue with this idea that what I was saying was like them telling me “my religion, if I had any, was a lie because it was based on belief”

Let me explain something to you. Gender Identity Disorder (GID)  is science. It is in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders or the  DSM and it is a medical condition. It is covered by medical insurance. It is diagnosable

Otherkin are not. Those are not human conditions. I appreciate the fact that many of you are passionate about things but you are NOT ONE WITH THEM….you are not of kin. I am sorry but that’s not the case. User “neonkin” refused to acknowledge me after I explained this to them and I am sorry if I seem like a truscum or “ableist” (as NeonKin called me, even if they used the wrong definition of the word), but it’s just not a real thing. 

Be passionate and in love with things, but don’t make them part of this idea. This neo-pronoun community has made people with GID (professionally diagnosed or not) look like a joke to others. We are questioned on our sincerity and don’t need to have more issues with getting our proper identities acknowledged. 

Take a step back, look at what you have decided, and read about true GID. Learn and stop this ignorant train wreck that is Otherkin. Please. 

I have been part of the LGBTQA community for eight years, since I decided to be honest with myself. Never have I seen such an offence come from a supposed supporter of the community. 
I have depression, anxiety, OCD, and minor epilepsy…..along with my GID. However, none of these have ever led me to believe I am one with Harry Potter or dogs, (both of which I TRULY love). 

Stop making my identity a joke. It’s cruel and it’s wrong
Learn about GID please. 

::::RE-ADDING MY MORNING EDIT TO CLARIFY::::

I am sorry I offended the whole otherkin” community. I must clarify. I SUPPORT AND FULLY UNDERSTAND A SPIRITUAL CONNECTION TO SOMETHING! I AM 100% OKAY WITH OTHERKIN IN THIS RESPECT. 

However, if you decide to use otherkin as a form of expressing your gender, I cannnot and will not support you. It lessens the value of my words as a trans man and I cannot let that happen. For me, or for anyone else who has to go through transitioning because it is not fair for us to fight for our rights just to be taken as a joke due to you. 

I am sorry if I offended people…I needed to be more clear on my intentions with this post, and my ask box is open to anyone who needs to tell me something. 

Just FYI: I am learning more about the spiritual side of Otherkin, thanks to user “coastaldragon” . 
Here is a link to our conversation if you feel a need to add anything: (X) which includes a link to a very good explanation of otherkin. 

And if you want to remind me of why NeonKin isn’t a good otherkin example, I got it, (X) I’ve answered it a few times now and won’t bother with a response anymore. 

Thanks for reading, and as I stated, my ask box is open. 

Many people reblogged this without my clarification and I want that to be put out there so I’m reblogging for those that missed my REAL HONEST POINT!

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Otherkin;

thegenderninja:

As a transman who has fought tooth and nail along with all the other trans and non-binary people for acceptance, I must ask you to please stop making us look like farces.

Your idea is not cute….it’s insulting.

I was told by user “neonkin” when I messaged them about the…

Sorry if you don’t believe i did my research but I did edit this post to restate that i support otherkin who are doing this spiritually…i’m not okay with the new otherkin who have taken it as a fad of gender. Both you and I know that is not the case, and that the a true identifier of otherkin is a spiritual-like connection. 

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After last night’s fiasco, dealing with my own dreams/thougts and having to try and deal with pulling out a loan (it’s such a small loan and yet i can’t get appoved (it’s only $4700 dollars!)), I just want to shower, cuddle with myself, and watch Pushing Daisies because sometimes I need a break. 

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pr1nceshawn:

A Powerful, Thought-Provoking Comic On Depression And Battling It by Erika Moen.

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So I got my new binder

bedabug:

therealjazzbertie:

megannicoline:

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This is me in my usual bra, note the 34D/32DD boobs.

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And here is the binder, almost completely flat.

This thing is awesome.  It is remarkably comfortable, too.  Feels a bit like wearing a sports bra. I got it from Love Boat, this one(http://www.lesloveboat.com/shop/product_info.php?products_id=122&osCsid=57cc209b6d95c6c3efa2d87a2325b6c2)

WOAH.

Reblogging again for my trans* and genderfluid buddies and also all female cosplay friends.

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Yooooo my queer friendly friendos.

odditycommoditty:

Signal boost this PEES! :}

I have a medium (im pretty sure) tritop underworks binder and I am in need of a large, possibly xxl. since i had the beb, my chest area is a lot bigger. but yeah, I’m willing to do a trade or just sell it for fairly cheap. 

love

me.

Anyone need one for a fair price???

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clubo-pengo-dude666:

reblog if you’re ftm and ill follow you?

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To all the new followers (and the old)

thegenderninja:

Thanks for following me. I appreciate it and I hope not to dissapoint to much, though I will make a disclaimer that I make a lot of personal posts (most under “read more”s) and this is mostly a blog for marking the steps in my transition as well as blogging about equal rights, and some poetry, etc. 

I have two other tumblrs which are linked to this, but don’t feel obligated to follow…just FYI 

I wanna thank ya’ll for sticking with me tonight and if my old followers don’t see this ‘till tomorrow and disagree, sorry to sound like an ass, but you can unfollow. I don’t want you to feel unwelcome or uncomfortable and if my blog does that to you, I’d rather you stay in a good comfort zone. 

However, all of you, feel free to tell me if I should tag a trigger, if you’d like to see more posts on something or another, or send me articles to things that you find intresting, from funny shit to serious shit, I enjoy it all. 

Welcome and I hope you enjoy your stay. 

I FELT LIKE THIS NEEDED A MORNING REBLOG AS…WELL, SOME OF YOU DIDN’T SEE THE HAPPENINGS OF LAST NIGHT. 

IF YOU’D LIKE TO READ WHAT I WROTE:

http://thegenderninja.tumblr.com/post/95745638123/otherkin

GOOD DAY.